Single Rosalina, 39

This is no win in this situation, just various degrees of losing. This is your boy. Sure, you are not the biological hot sluts wants flirt father, but you still the boy. Problem is, he's right smack in the middle of the idiot stage. You issues well before he does and when you try to give him direction and he bucks, the wife steps in and sides with him. This is the hardest test of any marriage. "So, what do I do, Ubel?" You lose. What you lose depends on you. I know you the boy, because if you didnt, this wouldnt be an issue worth fighting over especially since the boy is at school. So, hats off to you for being a. If you resign yourself to stay quiet and no longer try to give the boy direction, that goes against everything that you have done so far these past years in building a relationship with him. If you stand your ground and kick him out, you risk your marriage and the family which you the most dissolves into nothing overnight. I had two friends, both married 30 years that went through the same battle you are. 1. My -'s hit 20 and got disrespectful and rowdy. Dad got in his face when the boy threatened his mom. Boy took a swing at dad, and dad gave the boy a new religion. The wife ed the cops to save her. Marriage and family dissolved overnight. 2. My -'s stepson got into trouble. Total slacker, wont work, stays up all night playing video games. Got a DUI and charges. Dad came down on his and the wife defended her. Dad wanted him out and the wife sided with her, "You wouldnt do this if this was your." This boy was 5 when they married and he was 25 when this all went down. So, my backed off and wont say anything about the boy being a loser. 3. My brother's father in law had a similar problem with his youngest. The boy got unruly and defiant. He wanted the boy out of his house, but his wife was against that idea. Well, his beat his mom up while dad was at work. Dad wanted a piece of him, but mom stood in the way and told dad that he really didnt mean it. Dad backed down. Well, the boy started having run-ins with the next authority figure, the cops. The cops beat the shit out of him and lock him up. Mom kept bailing him out until the judge sent him up river for the next decade. So, what should you do? That depends on what you are willing to lose. Single Ira, 48

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